Man Lands in ICU After Surprising Bae Unannounced, SA Reacts: "That Girl Is My Hero"

• A guy shared his devasting story of ending up in the intensive care unit after visiting his girlfriend unannounced
• The guy revealed how his hun's main man almost killed him and the video went viral online
• Netizens reacted as they flocked to the comments section to express their thoughts on the guy's story
• Briefly News spoke to psychologist and relationship expert Penny Holburn about how individuals can approach conflict resolution to prevent situations from escalating into something more serious, such as police involvement, in a relationship

One man nearly got killed all in the name of love after he paid his girlfriend a surprise visit at her place and things took a shocking turn for the worse.

Man ends up in ICU after visiting bae unannounced

The unexpected encounter has since sparked a wave of reactions across social media, with many weighing in on the risks of visiting a significant other unannounced.

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While taking to his TikTok account under the handle @nedymusictz the gent posted a video showcasing himself in a hospital. The guy shared with his viewers that he had intended to surprise his bae at her place without any prior notice.

However, upon arrival, the situation escalated quickly after he allegedly discovered something that led to a physical altercation which therefore landed him in hospital.

@nedymusictz revealed the following while taking to his TikTok caption saying:

"The main boyfriend wanted to kill me."

The footage went viral on social media clocking loads of views along with thousands of likes and comments. Many online users reacted with mixed feelings over the gent's confession.

Watch the video below:

Tips to resolve conflict and save relationships

While speaking to Briefly News, psychologist and relationship expert Penny Holburn shared how individuals can approach conflict resolution to prevent situations from escalating into something more serious, such as police involvement, in a relationship.

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"Staying with such a partner would be like having to parent them to reach adulthood. In general, in approaching conflict, you want people to have expressed their emotions and gotten the heated feelings out of the way. Otherwise, the focus is on the emotions and not what the other person is saying. In conflict management, each person gets a turn to put forward their point of view without interruption."

She added: "Each party attempts to truly understand what the other party is saying. Then options can be discussed and a solution put forward. If the situation is heated and very emotional, it may be best to postpone the discussion, or get a mediator."

Mzansi pokes fun at the man's ICU confession

The online community was amused as they took to the comments section to crack jokes about the man's situation, while some sympathised with him.

Nnuna Chifumbi was entertained saying:

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"That girl is my hero."

Fortunate said:

"Sorry handsome, you should have replaced her with me i won't break your heart."

Joygloria expressed:

"True definition of looks doesn't matter in a relationship it's only money."

Queen of west shared:

"Sisterhood is proud of her."

Lisa the princess commented:

"My problem these days when I see a girl child representing us this way."

Gracie added:

"I love reading such stuff! There’s a satisfaction that comes with it."

User simply said:

"Cheers to any sisterhood watching this."

How to get over a breakup

Although a relationship may be ending for the best, it can still be difficult. According to the University of New Hampshire here are the following ways one could get over a breakup and assist oneself to move on and be content as one adjusts to a breakup.

Dealing with a breakup is challenging due to the loss of the relationship, shared plans, dreams, and hopes, feelings of disappointment, grief, and failure, abrupt changes in daily routines, potential loss of relationships, and potential impact on one's sense of self.

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Grieving after a breakup involves experiencing conflicting emotions, seeking support from friends and family, and finding a balance between talking about the breakup and engaging in other activities. It's important to avoid negative thinking and focus on moving on.

Keep hope for the future and pay attention to how you're doing overall. If your reaction to the breakup is causing difficulty in managing tasks, consider seeking additional help, such as counselling services at PACS. Remember to feel the feelings and avoid negative thinking.

Women who ended up in hospital because of love

• Briefly News previously reported that a woman opened up about fighting for her life in a hospital bed all because of indoda.
• A woman in Mzansi was shown flames by her partner, and she took to social media to narrate her story.
• One hun had many mouths opened after she dropped a bombshell of a revelation concerning her relationship.

Source: Briefly News